Teachers Professional Development Speaker Reveals 5 Ways to help students overcome limitations.

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         IMAG01721. Everyone has weaknesses…

Some of the greatest achievers in the world, became great not because of their strengths but because of them recognizing their weaknesses and surrounding themselves with the necessary people to make them greater.

        2. Admitting your weakness…

 When you admit to any type of weakness two things can only happen. One you give up and give in or two you give in and get help. Admitting to any type of weakness shows humility and humility attracts teachers and mentors. If you act as if you know it all, you will fall. There is an old saying, “When the student is ready the teacher will appear.” When you admit to a weakness, you activate compassion in others.

3. If you do not acknowledge your limitations, you will never grow…

This is a biggie, how many times do we continue to ignore the elephant in the room. When we ignore a personal weakness, it grows and multiplies. Never deny your shortcomings. Facing your limitations is the key to you conquering them.

4.  When you try to do everything yourself, you prevent others needed to help you…

People around you will feel unnecessary, insignificant, and un-important and you lose the purpose of them being in your life. Pride moves people away from you and not towards you.

    5. Something inside of others, long to become necessary to you…

High achievers understand that they need other people to participate in their quest to success. They need you and you need them. For example: When a child ask for help from a parent. Something inside of the parent is sparked and the parent is excited to help. Why?, because the child needs them. This works the same with our limitations, something inside of someone in your life right now can help unleash the bondage of limitation.

Youth Motivational Speaker Reveals Proven Ways To Build Your Self-Confidence

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We live in such a negative society, is it any wonder why a lot of people’s self esteem and self worth is at a all time low. Our society rewards people for not having confidence in themselves, by allowing excuses and no accountability for not accomplishing anything. The reality is if you don’t have confidence in yourself you will never fully fulfill your calling in life. 3 Proven Ways To Build Your Self-Confidence.

  1. Recognize that you where created to solve a problem in this world and that someone’s life will not start until you enter it.

All things created needs a person, place or thing to validate its existence. For example: A pencil needs something to write on to prove it is a pencil, glass needs some form of liquid to hold to prove it is a glass and a teacher needs students to prove they are a teacher. Seek and find what problem you was created to solve, a great way to do that is to find something you are passionate about in that is the problem you where called to solve.

  1. Associate yourself with people who’s fire is brighter then yours.

People in your life can only do four things in your life add, subtract, divide, or multiply. You want to always surround yourself with people that will add other positive people in your life and/or multiply positive people in your life. One great sign that you are hanging around the right type of people is that they are always positive. Positive people and battery chargers not drainers. The battery chargers are the type of people you want to surround yourself with at all times.

 

  1. Fill every conversation that you have, with your goal in it.

You must constantly fill your spirit and thoughts with something you want to build up your confidence for. Athletes understand this concept, football players imagine themselves running for a touchdown, basketball players imagine themselves shooting the last second shot, what do you imagine you accomplishing. Put your goals in your constant conversation.

True Story: A group a foreign exchange students went to visit Disneyland when one of the students stated, “It would have been nice if Walt Disney was able to see this.” The escort replied to the student,”Oh you don’t understand because he saw this in his mind and spoke about it all a time, is because it is here.”

 

Youth Motivational Speaker Communication Secrets

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IMAG0167Communication Strategies For SUCCESS…

All communication can be divided into two categories, Questions or Statement.  One will always follow the other. The only question is which will follow; and you can always have complete control over your portion of the conversation or negotiation. Negotiation is when two or more people communicate with the purpose of changing their relationship.

Possibilities In Table Form:

Question -  Question

Question – Statement

Statement – Question

Statement – Statement

If someone ask you a question you will respond with either a question or a statement. If I make a statement you will respond with either a question or a statement. If we keep asking other questions we will delve further into the area of interest. If either of us stops asking questions , then we are beginning a close. If a statement follows a statement, we have arrived at the close. The only question is HOW did we close! Did one or both of us get what we wanted or did we both finish without the hoped for results.

If we want to conclude negotiations successfully we must remember this. When we make a statement to someone we risk premature closure. As long as we are continuing to pursue information we remain in control of the negotiation and it will continue.

When someone is ready to close when they communicate they should do the following:

Present their very best case and then SHUT UP! / Then he who speaks first loses!!

It will not assure a WIN-WIN but it will invariably generate a short term win for you if that is all that you are concerned about.

This technique is not recommended as something to use but rather as something that works.

I WOULD LIKE TO CONFRONT THINGS…BUT I CAN’T

It is easy to say that if one will confront things that they can and will not be handled and that un-handled things are problems and that handled things are not. Possible handled things are called opportunities. If one sees something that they plan to handle it, it is referred to as opportunity.

Youth Motivational Speaker Reveals Proven Ways To Build Your Self-Confidence

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30We live in such a negative society, is it any wonder why a lot of people’s self esteem and self worth is at a all time low. Our society rewards people for not having confidence in themselves, by allowing excuses and no accountability for not accomplishing anything. The reality is if you don’t have confidence in yourself you will never fully fulfill your calling in life. 3 Proven Ways To Build Your Self-Confidence.

1. Recognize that you where created to solve a problem in this world and that someone’s life will not start until you enter it.

All things created needs a person, place or thing to validate its existence. For example: A pencil needs something to write on to prove it is a pencil, glass needs some form of liquid to hold to prove it is a glass and a teacher needs students to prove they are a teacher. Seek and find what problem you was created to solve, a great way to do that is to find something you are passionate about in that is the problem you where called to solve.

2. Associate yourself with people who’s fire is brighter then yours.

People in your life can only do four things in your life add, subtract, divide, or multiply. You want to always surround yourself with people that will add other positive people in your life and/or multiply positive people in your life. One great sign that you are hanging around the right type of people is that they are always positive. Positive people and battery chargers not drainers. The battery chargers are the type of people you want to surround yourself with at all times.

3. Fill every conversation that you have, with your goal in it.

You must constantly fill your spirit and thoughts with something you want to build up your confidence for. Athletes understand this concept, football players imagine themselves running for a touchdown, basketball players imagine themselves shooting the last second shot, what do you imagine you accomplishing. Put your goals in your constant conversation.

True Story: A group a foreign exchange students went to visit Disneyland when one of the students stated, “It would have been nice if Walt Disney was able to see this.” The escort replied to the student,”Oh you don’t understand because he saw this in his mind and spoke about it all a time, is because it is here.”

Nationally Recognized Anti Bully & Character Education Speaker Reveals Important Character is to achieving your goal.

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Maybe it was just another isolated bullying incident or a sign of a growing trend in schools today? A few years ago, a few boys on a school bus were recorded taunting and insulting a school bus monitor. She tried to ignore them, but they carried on for more than Twenty minutes, making her breakdown and cry

 

A great deal of students said that at least once in the years of school they were bullied in ways that seriously upset them. An equivalent number said they had bullied someone else.

We really need to crack down on the problem. All over the country, schools are addressing the bullying problem and are looking for a program to help guide the students as well as the teachers. But is that enough? Some question the strength of approaches that only seek to focus on bad behavior with corrective measures. In addition they point out that legalistic strategies put a heavy responsibility on schools or any outside source.

This is where character education comes in. Assembly program like the Anti bullying and character education Assembly program The Magic In You work well simply because they promote and reinforce basic character values, including empathy, compassion and respect for others.

“The idea is just not simply to battle bullying, but to create an Anti bullying and character education culture for the school and community” states Jamahl Keyes-The Magic Motivator, meaningful and effective character development programs involve more than an assembly program here and there. We want the climate and culture of the school to change. Meaning making certain all teachers and staff members are sending a consistent message. How can this be done? By having everybody agreeable!

The Anti Bully and Character Education Assembly program The Magic In You, promotes basic values such as trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring and good citizenship. From the classroom to the lunch room to the locker room, the focus on these core values is pervasive through the entire school.

As the Anti Bullying and Character education Assembly program The Magic In You takes hold, it often extends beyond the school but also into the community, many of these components are factor to preventing bullying, address the complete school population, not just the problem students.