YOUTH MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER REVEALS 10 PROVEN WAYS TO ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS

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The Magic MotivatorWe live in a society that talks negative and looks down on people that dream. You’ve heard the sayings, “”Stop Day Dreaming”, “Only In Your Dreams”, Wake Up Your Dreaming”. The fact of the matter is, before you are able to reach your destiny, calling and fulfillment in life, you first receive it in a vision and/or dream, so that when it shows up again in your life you are able to recognize it.

Side Note: The Mind Functions In Two Parts To Replay The Past And Pre Play The Future. So when you dream about something that you want to accomplish your mind will pre-play your future accomplishing what you want to accomplish.

Before anyone reaches their full potential and destiny in life, they first dream about what they can become, in this article I will reveal to you 10 proven ways to make your dreams come true and reach your ‘calling in life’. But before I do let me say, “You will never be fully fulfilled and happy in your life until you find your purpose and your purpose is also shown in a vision and/or dream.

This article is designed to help you not only find your purpose in life but, lead you into the right direction to your success.

10 proven ways to achieve your dreams in your life

1.    Your Dream Should Never Be Barrowed…

How many times have you gotten excited and passionate about someone else’s pursued to their goals. You ended up helping them reach their goals in life only to not be excited about what you have done in your life. We are all sometimes victims of this. What we need to continue to do is ask ourselves consciously and sub-consciously, am I happy and when this is done will this make me happy. You can only be happy accomplishing your own dreams not someone else’s.

 2.    Your Dream May Need Encouragement From Other People At First…

Athletes understand this more than anyone else. Your dream will always require a mentor not a friend; but a mentor. A friend is comfortable where you are currently in your life; a mentor recognizes what you can become in your life. A mentor will reveal to you all of your obstacles before they even come to you.

 3.    Your Dream Does Not Require The Approval Of Everyone You Love.

Believe it or not family and friends can sometimes hurt you in pursuit of your destiny. In short some will envy you, some will say negative things about you, and some will be so self absorbed in their own lives. The best thing to do is to be wise in sharing your dreams and visions for your life.

 4.    Your Dream Can Start With Whatever Is On Your Heart Today.

We sometimes talk ourselves out of what we want to do, before we attempt to do it. Every accomplishment small or big starts small. If you have a dream all you need to nurture it is desire. God will tell you what to do; it’s your job to do it.

 5.    You Already Posses What It Takes To Launch Your Dream- DESIRE.

If you feed your dream with passion, it will become strong with desire. Fuel it with desire it will become an obsession. Your obsession will become a magnet that pulls others towards you to help you accomplish your dreams.

 6.    You Must Have An Obsession To Reach Your Dream.

When you are obsessed with your dream, it will determine what you do first every day. You will only be as successful as your daily habits.

 7.    Your Dream Requires Your Immediate Attention.

You must move on your dream now. Remember movement is the evidence of life.

 8.    You Must Build Your Daily Agenda Of Goals Around Your Dream.

Set small daily goals pushing you closer to your dreams. Write down your goals for your dream because without a goal you have a wish. Goals will able you to measure your accomplishments.

 9.    You Must Nurture Those Relationships Connected To Your Dreams.

Always mention your dream in every conversation. And find a way to encourage people in your life to give you gifts and encouragement connected to your dream.

 10.  Your Dream Deserves Your Total Focus.

The only reason we fail in anything is because lack of focus. Focus un-clutters you from un-necessary people, places, and things in your life. It’s like kryptonite to every person that will hinder you from reaching your destiny.

Teachers Professional Development Speaker Reveals 5 Ways to help students overcome limitations.

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         IMAG01721. Everyone has weaknesses…

Some of the greatest achievers in the world, became great not because of their strengths but because of them recognizing their weaknesses and surrounding themselves with the necessary people to make them greater.

        2. Admitting your weakness…

 When you admit to any type of weakness two things can only happen. One you give up and give in or two you give in and get help. Admitting to any type of weakness shows humility and humility attracts teachers and mentors. If you act as if you know it all, you will fall. There is an old saying, “When the student is ready the teacher will appear.” When you admit to a weakness, you activate compassion in others.

3. If you do not acknowledge your limitations, you will never grow…

This is a biggie, how many times do we continue to ignore the elephant in the room. When we ignore a personal weakness, it grows and multiplies. Never deny your shortcomings. Facing your limitations is the key to you conquering them.

4.  When you try to do everything yourself, you prevent others needed to help you…

People around you will feel unnecessary, insignificant, and un-important and you lose the purpose of them being in your life. Pride moves people away from you and not towards you.

    5. Something inside of others, long to become necessary to you…

High achievers understand that they need other people to participate in their quest to success. They need you and you need them. For example: When a child ask for help from a parent. Something inside of the parent is sparked and the parent is excited to help. Why?, because the child needs them. This works the same with our limitations, something inside of someone in your life right now can help unleash the bondage of limitation.

Youth Motivational Speaker Reveals Proven Ways To Build Your Self-Confidence

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We live in such a negative society, is it any wonder why a lot of people’s self esteem and self worth is at a all time low. Our society rewards people for not having confidence in themselves, by allowing excuses and no accountability for not accomplishing anything. The reality is if you don’t have confidence in yourself you will never fully fulfill your calling in life. 3 Proven Ways To Build Your Self-Confidence.

  1. Recognize that you where created to solve a problem in this world and that someone’s life will not start until you enter it.

All things created needs a person, place or thing to validate its existence. For example: A pencil needs something to write on to prove it is a pencil, glass needs some form of liquid to hold to prove it is a glass and a teacher needs students to prove they are a teacher. Seek and find what problem you was created to solve, a great way to do that is to find something you are passionate about in that is the problem you where called to solve.

  1. Associate yourself with people who’s fire is brighter then yours.

People in your life can only do four things in your life add, subtract, divide, or multiply. You want to always surround yourself with people that will add other positive people in your life and/or multiply positive people in your life. One great sign that you are hanging around the right type of people is that they are always positive. Positive people and battery chargers not drainers. The battery chargers are the type of people you want to surround yourself with at all times.

 

  1. Fill every conversation that you have, with your goal in it.

You must constantly fill your spirit and thoughts with something you want to build up your confidence for. Athletes understand this concept, football players imagine themselves running for a touchdown, basketball players imagine themselves shooting the last second shot, what do you imagine you accomplishing. Put your goals in your constant conversation.

True Story: A group a foreign exchange students went to visit Disneyland when one of the students stated, “It would have been nice if Walt Disney was able to see this.” The escort replied to the student,”Oh you don’t understand because he saw this in his mind and spoke about it all a time, is because it is here.”

 

Youth Motivational Speaker Communication Secrets

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IMAG0167Communication Strategies For SUCCESS…

All communication can be divided into two categories, Questions or Statement.  One will always follow the other. The only question is which will follow; and you can always have complete control over your portion of the conversation or negotiation. Negotiation is when two or more people communicate with the purpose of changing their relationship.

Possibilities In Table Form:

Question -  Question

Question – Statement

Statement – Question

Statement – Statement

If someone ask you a question you will respond with either a question or a statement. If I make a statement you will respond with either a question or a statement. If we keep asking other questions we will delve further into the area of interest. If either of us stops asking questions , then we are beginning a close. If a statement follows a statement, we have arrived at the close. The only question is HOW did we close! Did one or both of us get what we wanted or did we both finish without the hoped for results.

If we want to conclude negotiations successfully we must remember this. When we make a statement to someone we risk premature closure. As long as we are continuing to pursue information we remain in control of the negotiation and it will continue.

When someone is ready to close when they communicate they should do the following:

Present their very best case and then SHUT UP! / Then he who speaks first loses!!

It will not assure a WIN-WIN but it will invariably generate a short term win for you if that is all that you are concerned about.

This technique is not recommended as something to use but rather as something that works.

I WOULD LIKE TO CONFRONT THINGS…BUT I CAN’T

It is easy to say that if one will confront things that they can and will not be handled and that un-handled things are problems and that handled things are not. Possible handled things are called opportunities. If one sees something that they plan to handle it, it is referred to as opportunity.

Youth Motivational Speaker Reveals Proven Ways To Build Your Self-Confidence

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30We live in such a negative society, is it any wonder why a lot of people’s self esteem and self worth is at a all time low. Our society rewards people for not having confidence in themselves, by allowing excuses and no accountability for not accomplishing anything. The reality is if you don’t have confidence in yourself you will never fully fulfill your calling in life. 3 Proven Ways To Build Your Self-Confidence.

1. Recognize that you where created to solve a problem in this world and that someone’s life will not start until you enter it.

All things created needs a person, place or thing to validate its existence. For example: A pencil needs something to write on to prove it is a pencil, glass needs some form of liquid to hold to prove it is a glass and a teacher needs students to prove they are a teacher. Seek and find what problem you was created to solve, a great way to do that is to find something you are passionate about in that is the problem you where called to solve.

2. Associate yourself with people who’s fire is brighter then yours.

People in your life can only do four things in your life add, subtract, divide, or multiply. You want to always surround yourself with people that will add other positive people in your life and/or multiply positive people in your life. One great sign that you are hanging around the right type of people is that they are always positive. Positive people and battery chargers not drainers. The battery chargers are the type of people you want to surround yourself with at all times.

3. Fill every conversation that you have, with your goal in it.

You must constantly fill your spirit and thoughts with something you want to build up your confidence for. Athletes understand this concept, football players imagine themselves running for a touchdown, basketball players imagine themselves shooting the last second shot, what do you imagine you accomplishing. Put your goals in your constant conversation.

True Story: A group a foreign exchange students went to visit Disneyland when one of the students stated, “It would have been nice if Walt Disney was able to see this.” The escort replied to the student,”Oh you don’t understand because he saw this in his mind and spoke about it all a time, is because it is here.”